FAQ

Two2Tango is the most powerful tool for improving, developing and maintaining strong and happy relationships. It's app based and it works by starting positive cycles in relationships by creating an exchange of incentives and rewards between partners. It's fun, easy to use, and free! Two2Tango is currently available to a select set of Beta users. If you'd like to get early access to Two2Tango , send us an email and we'll get back to you shortly

By using Two2Tango, you and your partner are taking the first step in achieving and maintaing a kick-ass, rock solid relationship.  The app is designed to make both both partners remember the good things about each other  and in that process, make one another feel appreciated, cared for, and connected. This inevitably makes both partners happier in the relationship. Our users report feeling more satisfied, having more sex, and being more in love with their partners than ever before. The Two2Tango app is your ultimate resource for making your relationship everything you would like it to be.

Two2Tango works by starting positive interaction cycles between you and your partner. When you login, we will nudge you to initiate the process by choosing a prompt which is then sent to your partner as a 'locked reward.' Your partner won't be able to open their locked reward until they reciprocate by sending a locked reward back. And the cycle continues. The prompts we've come up with are categorized intentionally to hit on all of the dimensions of interaction that we know are necessary to create and maintain happy relationships--positive communication,  laughter, increased sexual energy,  deeper levels of connection, sharing interests and desires, expressing gratitude, time for reflection, generosity of loving gestures, and so on, and so forth.

Have you ever sent a naked photo to your partner that they can't unlock until they tell you something they love about you? Or similarly, have you ever received a locked message from your partner that recalls the moment they knew they wanted to marry you, which you can't open until you thank them for something? I can tell you from personal experience that this kind of motivation lures us in like a freaking drug--it's irresistible and foolproof--there is pretty much nothing my partner or I (and our beta testers!) wouldn't do to unlock these kinds of feel-good rewards. When the prompts force us to remember what we like about each other, that thought stays fresh in our minds even though it hasn't been there in a while, and we automatically start feeling good about each other and the relationship. The positive cycle continues--we end up having more sex, better sex...we feel seen, valued, loved, and appreciated. These interactions Two2Tango creates are satisfying in and of themselves and leads to positive cycles that inevitably snowball into relationship satisfaction.

Two2Tango only takes a few minutes per day, and we think after about a few you should start seeing noticeable changes in your relationship. By using Two2Tango daily, we'll help you and your partner form good communication habits within your relationship so that you really can live 'Happily Every After'   

We know starting new habits, particularly in relationships when you feel 'stuck in a rut', can be a difficult thing. However, we've intentionally designed Two2Tango to make it as fun and playful as we can, to help get over any initial inertia that exists.  The science of learning tells us that new habits have to form for change to be lasting, and we've intentionally designed Two2Tango to make starting new habits enjoyable and (not going to lie!) kind of addictive. Still need a little nudge to encourage your your partner's involvement? We recommend start by trying one of the more juicy prompts like sending a locked nudie or a juicy secret, and see what happens. You can thank us later.  Small actions can accumulate to big results, but no doubt someone has to initiate and the reward has to be enticing enough to encourage both parties getting on board. Give it a try. We dare you.

The goal of Two2Tango isn't to solve all of your relationship woes. Sadly, there are no quick fixes to solve deep  issues within the relationship involving things like infidelity, trust, childhood trauma, unhealthy attachment styles, etc. However, before you even begin that process,  Two2Tango can help you and your partner build goodwill towards each other and dig out the positives within your relationship so that so that whenever you are ready to tackle those issues--you are starting from a good point.  We feel confident that the Two2Tango app can help most couples break negative cycles they find themselves in by starting positive communication habits. We will help you improve how you feel about your relationship no matter where you are.  We intend to lift the lid on relationships and give transparency to the fact that ALL relationships at some point experience problems--stress, uncertainty, doubt, infidelity, hopelessness, sexual struggles, conflict--whatever it is, you are not alone, and we'll be sharing content to address these issues through our Two2Tango blog and Juicy Chat podcast.  For those that really need more intensive support, we are in the process of developing further tools with trained relationship experts to consult, troubleshoot, and help you work through your specific issues. In addition to 1:1 work, this will include an 'Ask the Experts' forum where you can anonymously post your most troubling relationship questions and a community where you can share amongst others experiencing similar troubles. 

We wont argue that scrolling on most apps usually results in time taken away from genuine human interaction and real-life experiences. Two2Tango is different-- it's designed to use for a few minutes per day when you aren't together, so that when you are together, you enjoy your time together much more. The app is a simple tool to kick-start deeper feelings of love towards your partner that will lead to more fulfilling time in real life.

. Simple. You can read as many relationship books as you like, but until you take theoretical knowledge and apply it practically, you won't experience the benefit. It literally takes 'two to tango' in a relationship and when you are dealing with books to guide you through this process, it's a lot harder than it sounds! Two2Tango is a practical tool that succinctly packages all theoretical knowledge from the best relationship experts/books. We know makes relationships thrive because we've read all the books and consulted with the experts--we're delivering that knowledge through a simple and easy to use app that gets you doing 'the work' in a fun and delightful way.

Two2Tango offers you well researched and cutting edge information that is easy to understand and apply within your own relationship. Our app draws from the research of many of leading authors, researchers, psychologists, and counselors across the globe including John Gottman, Susan Johnson, Richard Schwartz, John Gray, Esther Perel, and John Bowlby. Additionally, we rely on the expertise of marriage counselor advisors with practical insight and experience regarding what makes relationships work.  Here at Two2Tango we believe that a strong committed relationship is possible for any couples who are open to exploration.